I haven’t written much about this subject because it’s
bound to upset someone and, knowing that I’ll hurt someone’s feelings or make
them mad, I’ve tried to avoid the issue in general discussion.
Let’s talk about Boy Scouts of America and
homosexuality.
I’d like to start off by saying that I don’t hate
homosexuals, nor do I wish them any harm.
I don’t know how God will decide if they go to heaven or not and I don’t
have the answers regarding why some people are “born that way” or not. I also don’t understand bacon-maple-bars or
why anyone would jump out of (perfectly good) airplanes, but that doesn’t make maple
bars or sky-divers wrong or evil. I don’t
think AIDS/HIV is God’s punishment for homosexuality (but it is a consequence
just like pregnancy is a consequence of sex).
I don’t find homosexuals creepy or scary or evil.
But, I don’t agree with them either. Marriage isn’t a right for anyone. Sex was designed for the creation of
children. Yes, we as a species enjoy the act of sex – to my knowledge we
were designed to do so. But sex is not
just about pleasure and love; it’s about making babies. Biologically, physically, emotionally, it’s
hard for me to rationalize that our bodies that were made to fit like two puzzle pieces – man and woman – should be used
in a way that doesn’t fit. It’s like two
negative sides of a magnet. They push
away; they don’t attract like a negative and a positive.
However, I don’t get to decide who anyone else is
attracted to or even who they marry or have sex with. And, I can’t honestly say I understand why
God would “allow” same sex attraction when he specifically forbids it in both the
Old and New Testaments of the Bible. I
know that adultery and substance abuse are spoken against in the Bible as well
as other things that God considers sin.
I also know that God gives us, his creations, free will so that we can choose to obey his laws or go against
them.
Sermon over; opinion starting.
Boy Scouts of America is a PRIVATE organization and not
open to everyone. It’s not open to girls
(although allows female leaders); it’s not open to children under the age of 6
and over 21. And, as the organization
lays out its membership “rules” in every book and manual, it’s not a surprise
that they expect there to be a moral code.
I won’t argue what morality is or if people choosing to live against God’s laws
can be moral or not. We’re all sinners
and there are really no levels of sin (although there are some sins listed as
abhorrent). It’s not like alcoholics will
have a different level of salvation than murders or rich people than poor. Our salvation is based on choice and our
willingness to live according to God’s laws is how I believe God judges our
eternal reward.
BSA specifically states that they have a moral code and
that members must have some sense of religion or spirituality. Scouts at every rank level are asked to
review their family’s religious beliefs.
BSA is available in many countries and open to many religions including
Muslim, Catholic, Buddhist, Jewish, Orthodox and Protestant. (Wikipedia)
Robert Baden Powell felt
strongly about religion – specifically Christianity – in the program saying “We aim for the practice of Christianity in
their everyday life and dealings, and not merely the profession of theology on
Sundays…” (Scouting for Boys, Baden-Powell, Oxford
University Press).
Christianity has
several references to same-sex relationships, marriage and homosexuality in the
Bible; Islam has writings in the Koran, and many other religions speak against
same-sex attraction – even if they do not forbid it.
BSA is NOT a
religious organization; however it is a private organization and privately
funded through donations and membership dues.
It has a nationally recognized non-profit status and until recently, its
membership requirements have not been questioned.
By asking the BSA
to change its membership requirements to fit the current society is not only
wrong but selfish. There are many
organizations available to youth that have many of the benefits of the scouting
program. Watering down any organization
to make it a one-size fits all program lessens the effectiveness of the program
as a whole.
The purpose of
the BSA program is to turn boys into men.
It’s not to tell them whom to love or marry or even which religion to
choose. It’s not about getting straight A’s or being a mechanic or a
missionary. The program helps boys learn
to be leaders and give them a comfort level with many activities and
experiences they might not otherwise be able to participate in. Learning to play marbles or shoot BB guns or
use a knife safely; planning a healthy meal and perform first aid and show
community and civic pride.
None of these programs specifically tell anyone they can’t love who they want;
but when it comes to the part about staying morally
straight and being reverent it’s
difficult for me to imagine how anyone who isn’t living according to some
scriptural principle could consider themselves reverent or moral by directly
disobeying specifically mentioned restrictions in a holy book; regardless
of which holy book it is.
I have friends
who feel very strongly that this is a discrimination issue; much like racism or
slavery. If everyone had to join the BSA
in order to get into school or college or get a job, I might feel the
same. No one is forcing someone to be a
scout or to live in a moral fashion. No
one is deeming which religion is right and wrong. You’re not forbidden from drinking from a
specific fountain or attending school if you’re not a scout.
In fact, unless
you’re wearing your uniform or a BSA insignia, no one would know you were a
scout unless you told them. You’re not required to wear a star on your coat or
a caste mark on your forehead to signify your membership. No one denies you from entering college or applying
for a scholarship based on your BSA membership status.
Joining a private
organization is a choice. If you don’t
like the rules, don’t join. If you don’t
want a milkshake, don’t get one. Don’t
like cars? Ride a bike. Hate credit cards? Pay cash.
Don’t require everyone to follow your choices. No one is making anyone be a Cub or a Boy
Scout. You can choose not to wear the
shirt and say the oath and follow the motto.
But if you choose to join the ranks, then you’d better agree with the viewpoints
of the organization instead of changing them to fit your needs.
My recommendation
is that if you don’t like the game; walk away and start your own game somewhere
else. Develop your own program that
includes the rules and values that you support.
Order your coffee without whip cream or with organic, free-trade
beans. But don’t make everyone else
follow your values just because you feel left out or guilty or convicted.
